Some of my experiences as a bride-to-be



Friday, November 19, 2010

Wedding Dreams

No, I am not referring to having the wedding of my dreams, I am talking about literally having dreams revolving around the wedding.  I sort of figured that I would have nightmares about things going wrong at my wedding but the dreams I have been having this week have been so bizarre. 

Saturday night -

Saturday night I had a dream that Jon went home with his parents on our wedding night.  I think that this dream stemmed from an incident that happened earlier that week -- I called the hotel where we have rooms blocked off to get an update and to find out who had been able to get their rooms reserved.  The receptionist was running through the list and telling me names and how many rooms they had reserved - she got to K.Roby and the number that followed her name was 9.  9?!?!?!?  WTF does she need 9 rooms for?!!?!?  I thought - I have been on vacation with Jon's parents before and I know that she doesn't pack lightly for anything but I was seriously appalled, what could she possibly be doing with 9 rooms - what did she need 1 for her, 1 for Jon's dad, 1 for his brother, 1 for Jon and 5 for their things?!  After calling Jon and giving him a piece of my mind (sorry, Jon)  I found out the rooms were actually reserved for members of Jon's extended family....okay, fine, that's what she was doing with 9 rooms.  But I think that this initial freak out made me have nightmares - In my dream - we literally forgot that we had reserved the bridal suite at the historic lakefront hotel for the night of our wedding...and I was calling him at 3 am to remind him.  This was bizarre dream #1.

Monday night -


Monday night I had a dream that our DJ lit fireworks while we were cutting our cake.  As you can see above...apparently this can actually happen.   Fireworks are great for the 4th of July...but they aren't exactly how I picture the 'cake cutting' pictures we will get back from our photographer.  In the dream Jon and I were dodging fire sparks while trying to get a piece of cake....

Tuesday night-

Tuesday night I had a dream that Jon forgot to plan the honeymoon.  We both had our bags packed and I guess it was supposed to be a surprise for me where we were going (which BTW would NEVER happen....I am way too much of a control freak to allow my honeymoon to be a surprise destination.  How would I ever plan my outfits if I didn't know where I was going?!).  But once we got to the airport I asked him where we were going and he basically said "I don't know where do you want to go?".  I think at that point in the dream I saw that there was a flight to Fiji leaving that night....so we went home and booked a hotel in Fiji - I don't really know how things ended, I guess fine...but I was not happy in my dream.


Thursday Night -

Thursday night I had a dream that a friend of mine scheduled her wedding on the same day as mine and asked me to be in it.   Not only was I supposed to be a bride and a bridesmaid on the same day but we were sharing 4 other bridesmaids.... All of the things I had planned for my wedding day like spending the morning with my mom and bridesmaids getting our hair and makeup done were ruined because I had to be in her wedding at noon and then my own at 2.  Luckily I know that won't happen because the girl who was getting married at noon in my dream was married last November.  I think this dream was because I was watching E news and Speidi decided to get married again on the beach....weren't they like JUST married like 2 years ago?

Wedding # 1
 Wedding #2

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